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#388825 - 03/09/12 03:22 PM another one bites the dust
Avery46 Offline

Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
****Trigger warning*****

This story is lots of things. It has lots of issues. It speaks to the voice survivors need. I met this guy - the cop/perp.

The title of the article speaks to what the public/reporter believes about the "event" today.

This article triggers me. I get chills down my spine.

aka DJsport

#388827 - 03/09/12 03:27 PM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: Avery46]
westchesterguy Offline

Registered: 11/14/09
Posts: 421
Loc: Westchester County NY
one "feels he should pay for what he did" only after he gets caught!!!

he should get 18 years per count...and per boy.


#388828 - 03/09/12 03:32 PM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: westchesterguy]
Avery46 Offline

Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA

I agree. This story "shows" how important it is to change the statue of limitations for laws for past crimes.

aka DJsport

#388832 - 03/09/12 03:58 PM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: Avery46]
pluckmemory Offline

Registered: 03/27/08
Posts: 562
It is a miracle that the DA's office put the police officer away. So many DA's protect police officers, no matter what the wrongdoing.

#388841 - 03/09/12 09:41 PM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: pluckmemory]
MrEdd Offline

Registered: 01/24/03
Posts: 340
Loc: Texas
The nightmare is not "over" it will come back again and again.
Yeah, the creepy cop is locked up...but that doesn't make it all better.

Some Things are not problems to be solved, rather, they are facts which must be coped with over time.

#388842 - 03/09/12 10:05 PM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: MrEdd]
unhappycamper Offline

Registered: 10/21/11
Posts: 753
Loc: VA
A COP who's a CHILD MOLESTER in prison? Methinks this perp is in for a rough time, too.


#388843 - 03/09/12 10:05 PM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: MrEdd]
LandOfShadow Offline

Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 684
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
I was struck how the county prosecutor stated how there are no winners in this case of a boy abused. The damage to public trust, not to mention the some 17 (... At. Least.) victims is huge.

I thought the "nightmare" he was referring to was the legal process he got caught up in. Not the abuse aftermath, though, I'm sure a lot of people assume everything fine now...

Where's the civil case? Is there some law you can't sue municipalities for this?

Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer

And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you

Paul Eluard

#388857 - 03/10/12 01:36 AM Re: another one bites the dust [Re: LandOfShadow]
JustScott Offline
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Registered: 01/28/08
Posts: 2614
Loc: Central PA
Rough time in prison?? Nah, I have a few friends who work in a fed prison, and they said it's sick because these guys get their own Area, own workout area, own everything and they said most of the time they sit around getting off by sharing stories. They both said it makes them so sick when it's their turn to work that area.

They should be put in with everyone else, but there's plenty of lawyers willing to get them special treatment.

Edited by JustScott (03/10/12 01:38 AM)


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