Pete, Pero, and smalltown,
I SO much appreciate your replies. Your responding to me means so much. Responding to someone who you don't know is like wow to me. I am glad to know you all.
I have experienced being both a boy and a father of divorce. My parents divorced when I was 14 after years of fighting. I hurt bad. I was experiencing years (me at between ages 3-16) the abuse in the mean time. I could not find the strength at age 25 to get help in order to stay married so, I divorced and left my kids.
Fast-forward to today with me being 48.
Thanks guys. Your great men.