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#385197 - 02/10/12 06:33 PM Re: Why didn't anyone stop it? [Re: lapchinj]
westchesterguy Offline

Registered: 11/13/09
Posts: 421
Loc: Westchester County NY
Originally Posted By: lapchinj
...Why was it that the only place I felt safe and wanted was with my gymnastics coach, who was the father I always wanted, my lover and pimp.

gather he was your pedophile?

how can anyone blame a kid (i.e. one's self) for seeking someone who validated that he was alive?

who validates us now, as adults?

i, personally, have no validations. but for those who do, whether wife or lover, are they just fulfilling the role left vacant by a pedophile? or are they doing a better job of fulfilling those validation needs?


#385410 - 02/12/12 02:24 AM Re: Why didn't anyone stop it? [Re: westchesterguy]
lapchinj Offline

Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1481
Loc: New York
Peace,Rainbows & Healing

Edited by lapchinj (03/16/13 10:19 PM)
Stick around, It will get better....

#385412 - 02/12/12 02:36 AM Re: Why didn't anyone stop it? [Re: lapchinj]
kinghenri Offline

Registered: 05/06/09
Posts: 221
Loc: Tucson Arizona

"In my life, I have seen,
People walk into the sea,
Just to find memories,
Plagued by constant misery,
Their eyes cast down,
Fixed upon the ground,
Their eyes cast down

I'll keep my eyes fixed on the sun"

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