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#384500 - 02/05/12 09:46 PM New Member
cuda Offline

Registered: 02/05/12
Posts: 22
Loc: TN
starting to work through issues

Fighting My Many Headed Dragon

My Story

#384507 - 02/05/12 10:31 PM Re: New Member [Re: cuda]
mcl1982 Offline

Registered: 01/09/12
Posts: 44
Loc: IL
Welcome...sorry you have to bed here, but glad you found this site. I never thought there would be a site like this until I found it. It's been a big help to me so far and there are many great guys here that are willing to help and listen. Just know you are not alone and you will find a lot of people have similar stories.

#384569 - 02/06/12 11:43 AM Re: New Member [Re: cuda]
gjonbos Offline

Registered: 09/23/11
Posts: 48
Loc: MA
Welcome Cuda,

If you are just starting to work through issues - then this is a good place to start. Like MCL said, there are alot of guys here who are floating in the same boat as you, so I hope that you find all the support and understanding that you need, I know I did. You didn't deserve whatever it is that brings you here and I am sorry that it has to be a part of your history, but good things are to come for you!

All the Best,

"Place your past into a book
Put in everything you ever took
Place your past into a book
Burn the pages let them cook"

#384572 - 02/06/12 12:09 PM Re: New Member [Re: gjonbos]
allendale65 Offline

Registered: 12/30/11
Posts: 13
Loc: SD, USA

Welcome to the forum; you have found a good place to work on issues.

I hope you will find answers to questions and that you discover tools to help you manage your life. We all want a better life.

Thank you for your bravery and best of luck to you in this journey.

Here, take hold of my hand...
I will remember these days for you...

#384586 - 02/06/12 02:20 PM Re: New Member [Re: allendale65]
nltsaved Offline

Registered: 08/26/08
Posts: 912
Loc: Kc,Mo
Welcome brother it says a lot sometimes very little needs to be said because the actions themselves speak louder than words ever could . Glad you are choosing not to be haunted by your past instead facing them to overcome them . Good for you my man good for you .

Video of me telling my story
you are not alone never were
Why i hate Religion but love Jesus

#384608 - 02/06/12 06:45 PM Re: New Member [Re: nltsaved]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3950
Loc: settling in the USA again
I hope you'll soon feel accepted and at ease here. Unfortunately, whatever you have been through, whatever your issues, there is someone here with a similar story who will understand.

I wish you all the best as you face our common foe.

"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"

#384644 - 02/06/12 11:53 PM Re: New Member [Re: cuda]
ALIVE 3n1 Offline

Registered: 12/24/11
Posts: 76
Loc: Throne Room of God
Welcome Cuda,

The first step is the hardest. We are cheering you on. Feel free to ask any questions.

#392756 - 04/08/12 04:09 PM Re: New Member [Re: ALIVE 3n1]
cuda Offline

Registered: 02/05/12
Posts: 22
Loc: TN
Sorry for not posting much. But much has happened. I told my beloved about my guy sexual encounters when I was growing up. Having sex with my father, sisters boyfriends. Lately (Nov 2011) have sex with unnamed and unknown men at bookstores. She told me that I was going to get tested. Just my luck my test returned and I'm HIV+. Thank god that she is negative and please God lets keep it that way. I start Meds next week
Fighting My Many Headed Dragon

My Story

#392763 - 04/08/12 04:43 PM Re: New Member [Re: cuda]
SamV Offline

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5956
Loc: Talladega, Alabama, USA
Welcome cuda
MaleSurvivor Moderator Emeritus 2012 - 2014

#392772 - 04/08/12 06:21 PM Re: New Member [Re: SamV]
peroperic2009 Offline


Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3772
Loc: South-East Europe
Welcome to MS Cuda!
Sorry to hear terrible news, I hope that you will get well with meds and therapy. It is great that you have nearby someone who supports you!
Please share as much as possible with us, there are a lot of things that we can learn from each other...
My story

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