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#382231 - 01/12/12 09:57 PM No regrets
1lifenow Offline

Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 437
Loc: west coast
Top 5 deathbed regrets!

I wonder how many of us have lived our lives in regret over so many things. Its a lesson we all can take from. For me, my five I am working on b4 the bucket:

1. not living who I should be for so long - I am now the man i want to be and its so freeing

2. not appreciating those who are kind to me, small acts need to be acknowledged. People say I am not a douche now(almost).

3. telling my kids and my family including my cranky older brother "I love you" and not expecting a reply.

4. hoping i dont end up alone but accepting that if i do, i did all i could to just be myself.

5. stop second guessing myself, if i make a decision stick with it to the outcome. Thats what a man has, a conviction in his actions. Part of the negative self talk is the indecision. Follow the way that seems right, if it isnt -change it, do something else. But stop bitching already.

I like this insight from the near end, now off to the gym and work it. Not on my list but I would hate to leave a corpulent corpse.

The need for love lies at the very foundation of human existence. Dalai Lama

WoR Barrie 2011

#382296 - 01/13/12 03:14 PM Re: No regrets [Re: 1lifenow]
pbert53 Offline
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Registered: 10/26/09
Posts: 576
Loc: Washington, USA
Thanks Grant. Good food for thought. I appreciate it man.



If you cannot control what happens to you, you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

~ adapted from: Sri Ram


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