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#380501 - 12/23/11 05:18 PM Re: "Normals" [Re: Avery46]
neveragain Offline

Registered: 12/21/11
Posts: 26
ourlastchance put in writig what i fell. my wife did nothing to seserve waht i've done to her (porn prostituds screwed her sister). i done these things because of what happened to me and how my moral developmint got screwed up in the proces. i am sad that i made her a victim of my abuse. somehow she still sees me as good and wothy of her love. i would call that being a saint. if i get to be called a survivor when i've hurt her so bad she shouuld be called a survivor of ME.

#380503 - 12/23/11 05:32 PM Re: "Normals" [Re: neveragain]
Disappointed Offline

Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 541
Loc: U.S.A.

Good line:

"[s]he should be called a survivor of ME."


Dealing with folks who ignore or deny is bad. I hope I understood your posting.



#380530 - 12/23/11 10:13 PM Re: "Normals" [Re: Disappointed]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
I was actually trained to use this phrase as a wife's label:

Wife = "You are the love of my life. Without you I am nothing. i would be completely lost. My life would have no meaning."

Then she'd toss me a cookie and pat me on the head.

#380581 - 12/24/11 02:59 PM Re: "Normals" [Re: Avery46]
Dar Offline

Registered: 11/15/11
Posts: 170
Loc: Missouri
Castle said:
For the believers reading this, you will be judged, by a power greater than me, but I'm also judging and can tell you you've done wrong.

(Im not being a smart ass here Castle):)
I for one am glad I will be judged by a power greater than me. He brings joy and peace to my life and I thank you for acknowledging that and for reminding us that we will be jugded.

Let the man without sin cast the first stone.

As for "Normals"???? What is normal? I felt for years that I was normal. So you are 100% correct in what you are saying.
I feel(IMO) that We are all normal in our own way. Those that are not like me are the abnormal ones to me.
It just doesnt matter who you are, everyone has their own thoughts and feelings.
The law of the land may say that some are abnormal or normal, BUT???? who's to say that the law is right?
As I change through out my life I stiil think that I am normal, only now thinking differently than I once did. That comes with age.
Am I still hurting about my past, "YES", but that is a normal reaction for anyone and for any past pain or actions they regret.

So I think that we are all normal in our own way.

Thanks for bringing this up Castle, great thought.

Merry Christmas Everyone and God Blees you all

All I ever wanted was a hug.

#380683 - 12/26/11 04:37 AM Re: "Normals" [Re: Dar]
hopeandtry Offline

Registered: 07/29/10
Posts: 476
I don't believe in "normal." As for being attached to a survivor, I would have considered it a blessing to be with my ex because I saw the good in him; HOWEVER, because he did not seek help and was hurting me, it turned out to be a blessing that I did not end up married to him. BUT I don't believe that survivors are people to be avoided. There are many survivors who have been a blessing to me.

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