Firstly, Yes there are a lot of horrible stories on the site, but there are also a lot of good stories on the site, men that have overcome and gone on to lead great lives free from the addictions and bad behaviour associated with CSA.
Secondly: well done, well done for opening up to your wife and telling her all, this is a great step in overcoming the pain and horrific consequences of CSA.
Mostly, We are glad that you have finally decided to join in the healing, and we are glad that little Ges brought you to the point in your life that you can begin to heal.
Read a lot, ask a lot of questions and Talk a lot.
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