BadGirl and everyone. It appears as if some things have been said that maybe weren't meant to come across in an offensive manner? Hard to tell for sure at this point.
I do want to welcome you, BadGirl, to our little home on the web. As Disappointed has pointed out, there can be misunderstandings at times. It's only natural that it occur in spite of everyone's good intentions. I'd encourage anyone who's posted a response here to examine what you've said and to offer an apology if there's a chance someone may have been hurt. We're not about hurting here but about community and healing.
On a broader spectrum, if anyone sees or receives a response or a message they believe to be inappropriate or hurtful please notify a moderator so the issue can be dealt with, hopefully in an appropriate manner.
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson