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#377707 - 12/02/11 03:18 PM Re: I deserve it! [Re: blindpet]

Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 3825

I needed it--well said and I know I lose sight of self love. I am and trying not to fall. I have been good fighting any thoughts or feelings to act out. I am learning to love myself which I have not done forever. Thanks it picked me up!

#377799 - 12/03/11 02:20 AM Re: I deserve it! [Re: KMCINVA]
petercorbett Offline

Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 2509
Hi, my fraternal brothers.

I have recently just started learning how to love, respect, listen & believing in a young boy named Peter.

Who just happens to be me.

It hasn't been easy as I had to let go of another person whom I had loved for most of my life. Replacing his tainted love for me, and my genuine love for him.

With loving & believing in myself.

Wishing you well in healing, my fraternal brothers.

"I will take that lost boys hand, and I will lead him from the depths of darkness, into the sunshine, forever into eternity." As he is me.


Working Boys' Home 10-14 yrs old, grades 5-8. 1949-1953
A very humble alumni of the WOR Dahlonega, GA.
May 15-17 2009, Alta, Sep. 2009. Sequoia, 2010.
Hope Springs, 2010.

#377837 - 12/03/11 05:16 AM Re: I deserve it! [Re: blindpet]
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Registered: 11/19/11
Posts: 59
Mike, I never heard that song before I checked out your sig line... then I heard it and I really like the song... it helps me adjust my perspective. I put it on now and then while I am working... thanks for the tune.


Survive, then thrive

#377849 - 12/03/11 06:42 AM You really do deserve it [Re: blindpet]
whome Offline

Registered: 05/07/11
Posts: 1743
Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Hi BP.
Sorry if I came over a bit harsh, but I am glad that you snapped out of it.

Make a list of things to do that are healthy alternates to drinking or acting out, and If you find yourself in a spot refer to the list.

And as the title of your post says, YES YOU REALLY DO DESERVE IT. You deserve it, and a whole lot more, and all of this will come as you heal.

Always be gentle on yourself, as healing does take a long while, and we do fall down sometimes, but as they say, fall 10 times, get up 11.

Heal well Brother

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