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#372731 - 10/18/11 03:27 PM Re: Lies, transparency, moving forward [Re: hopeandtry]
Disappointed Offline

Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 541
Loc: U.S.A.
Hi Eldee,

Yes, I was serious. My envy is incalculable.



#372785 - 10/19/11 06:04 AM Re: Lies, transparency, moving forward [Re: Disappointed]
whome Offline

Registered: 05/07/11
Posts: 1739
Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
OK let me Clarify

Love always wins when both Desire the same outcome.
Sorry Hope, Didn't mean to scratch an old wound.

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#372818 - 10/19/11 05:29 PM Re: Lies, transparency, moving forward [Re: whome]
Gretta Offline

Registered: 09/18/11
Posts: 240
I sure as heck hope so. The statistics on my marriage surviving aren't very good. We have much love and desire to make it work but I have to say I am getting tired.

Dear Hope If I could I would love to run from this, fast and far, but I can't so consider yourself lucky.

I keep saying to myself that my father in law and all the older kids that hurt my husband as a little boy are NOT going to win. My children and I are going to win this one.

Edited by Gretta (10/19/11 07:48 PM)

#372854 - 10/20/11 12:34 AM Re: Lies, transparency, moving forward [Re: Gretta]
GoodHope Offline

Registered: 07/05/11
Posts: 428
It's funny you say about the perps not winning. I said almost the same thing except exchange perps/for the devil. I believe my husband's main perp was/is? a sick individual being used by Satan himself to wreak havoc hear on earth. I know, crazy religious talk, but I look at the destruction and it doesn't end in the dark rooms that our loved ones were alone with perps in. It lingers....for destroys families...with addictions...drugs, alcohol, pornography and adultery. It creates distance between the survivors and God because of the shame it leaves them with(and shame is the true mark of the devil--it says you ARE bad and can keep you from surrendering to God because you believe you have to be "good enough" and you mistakenly think that you are bad or damaged. If that ain't the mark of the devil, I just don't know what is! I'd be a liar if I denied that there are days where I have thought (and said aloud!) "Devil, you can have this one. I'm done!" But so far, I've waited long enough to see another day that says, "Not this one, not this time, not my husband, not my family."

Wife of a survivor

#373453 - 10/27/11 01:37 AM Re: Lies, transparency, moving forward [Re: GoodHope]
hopeandtry Offline

Registered: 07/29/10
Posts: 476
@Martin, it's okay...I'm just saying love isn't always enough.

@Gretta, I suppose I am lucky, but on the other hand, I wish I had someone who was willing to work on things...if he's not, he's not, but it still hurts knowing he wasn't willing.

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