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#374600 - 11/07/11 09:24 PM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: 1lifenow]
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In the theme of your signature icon, you hit a home run with your post.

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I have taken to the stand-up comedy stage to educate other male survivors and those who try to love them. I blog about my isolated religious upbringing where physical and sexual abuse were commonplace and I serve as a facilitator of a weekly support group for men who have suffered sexual assault.

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#374601 - 11/07/11 09:33 PM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: lapchinj]
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Jeff, your post is an eye opener. I hope it helped to open up about it. It helped me, and I'm sure others, to learn about your experience and your survival.

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#374604 - 11/07/11 09:47 PM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: cris40ky]
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Yes, Keith, bullied lots from sometime in grade school through middle school. It seemed like I had 10+ enemies a day.

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#374625 - 11/08/11 03:38 AM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: FormerTexan]
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Hi Geff.

As I said when you wrote about this the in the other thread, that sounds disturbingly familiar, I can completely empathize sinse I had fairly similar incidents to that happen as well and they stil make me feel disguisting and violated, and the teachers did absolutely nothing or claimed it was my fault, sinse they didn't want to admit there was a problem at all.


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#374627 - 11/08/11 04:23 AM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: dark empathy]
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Edited by lapchinj (03/18/13 06:13 AM)
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#374684 - 11/08/11 04:33 PM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: lapchinj]
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Registered: 06/15/11
Posts: 49
Loc: Texas, USA
Jeff, it is absolutely true that, if what you went through, you suffered as an adult, you would have an air tight case in a court of law. Why does it not occur to people that it is an even worse offense when it happens to a kid. I have overcome a lot when it comes to my bullying issues, and I haven't seen such a level of public humiliation, but I still find myself fighting negative feelings when I hear people, especially girls, laughing behind me. It's like they are all still laughing at me. I have to remind myself that those days are long gone.


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#374686 - 11/08/11 05:16 PM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: mickeyg1375]
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I'm still following this thread.

I'm dismayed to perceive that there doesn't seem to be many resources in the way of counseling for people who have been victims of school bullying. In my case (and in many of yours) I was bullied by a large group of kids in school during grades 1-3.

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#374690 - 11/08/11 06:06 PM Re: CSA Compounded with bullying [Re: Magellan]
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Edited by lapchinj (03/18/13 06:13 AM)
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