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#372211 - 10/12/11 02:43 PM Intrinsic being
1lifenow Offline

Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 437
Loc: west coast
Came across this today.

Sort of self explanatory. We here all know how tough this issue is. I get that scoopy doo, WTF shaggy expression when I come across stuff like this.


It's nice to see objective rationality can prevail.


And specifically:

crazy + T, time and compassion = smile

The need for love lies at the very foundation of human existence. Dalai Lama

WoR Barrie 2011

#372224 - 10/12/11 08:17 PM Re: Intrinsic being [Re: 1lifenow]
Bradley P Offline

Registered: 11/03/10
Posts: 68
Loc: AR
I don't understand why we are so adamant that a homosexually oriented person cannot change orientation, yet I see all the time that people say sexuality is fluid, and that there are no labels, etc...So that would seem to say then that the only fixed label that is unmutable is the 100% homosexually oriented person. Yet don't we say that nobody is 100% oriented towards either gender?? I'm confused...

"Life is for living, we all know...but I don't want to live it alone"-Chris Martin (Coldplay)

#372245 - 10/13/11 12:43 AM Re: Intrinsic being [Re: Bradley P]
F.A. Offline

Registered: 09/02/11
Posts: 230
Loc: United States
I have flowed from one to the other depending on who I fall in love with the person not the gender and I know many people who have had this in their lives with no confusion. Labels are created to be able to make judgments and put things in their place by someone else's standards.


To be sick is to be fragmented. To be healed is to become whole, and to become whole one must be in harmony with family, friends, and nature" -Navajo-


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