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#370203 - 09/15/11 11:39 PM if you got S.S.A. read this.
TOM2 Offline

Registered: 03/01/10
Posts: 11
Loc: NY neer buffol
HI ALL. cool i have S.S.A. to blush blush (f.y.i i am not gay or bi) i naver aktid on my S.S.A. and i naver want to.i naver had a boy friend or don sexyoul things witch a man. smile i dont want to be witch a man. sick the S.S.A. is stil ther. frown i am traying to git ride of my S.S.A and move on. if you see this post and i am not away. i am loking 4 support from athers that are going throw it.i need to talk a bout it. that may healp me git ride ov my S.S.A. and move on. so please pm me if i am not away.

#370246 - 09/16/11 06:19 AM Re: if you got S.S.A. read this. [Re: TOM2]
overcomer4life Offline

Registered: 02/25/09
Posts: 198
It could help you get over it, or it could increase your curiosity. It could go both ways. I have SSA as well, and have acted on it numerous times. Afterwards I feel like 30 day old trash...but I always go back. The need to be loved, hugged, and/or appreciated by a dude is the driving force for me. Be careful in how you pursue it...that's my advice.

#370268 - 09/16/11 03:15 PM Re: if you got S.S.A. read this. [Re: overcomer4life]
Freedom49 Offline

Registered: 12/31/07
Posts: 2724
Loc: Washington State
There are ways to get that masculine affirmation, affection, and acceptance without sexualizing it and feeling like 30 day old trash afterwards. I know I have been there and done that. It takes some time and some adjustment in your approach but it is very rewarding to have close intimate male friends and not feel the need to drop your pants.


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