"For everything, there is a season"
Maybe it is time to re-evaluate this relationship, painful as it may be to let go; it seems that you have outgrown the tendency to "settle". It's hard because letting go of a person means letting go of a big part of our own inner and outer lives as well, and death is always painful, albeit necessary for continued evolution toward our personal highest and best. And doing what is good for our personal highest and best increases the value of the world bank, too. I know the prospect seems daunting, but beyond the good-bye, you still have us.
Ron Schulz, MSPC, NCC