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#42056 - 06/19/03 05:51 PM Re: Please please help me
Wuamei Offline

Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...

As you can see already there is a lot of help & support here; we're here for each other. While I'm not glad for why you're here I'm glad you're here to deal with it, there's no better place!

Take care


"I can't stand pain. It hurts me."
--Daffy Duck

#42057 - 06/19/03 07:35 PM Re: Please please help me
tone Offline

Registered: 04/22/03
Posts: 41
Loc: Canada
I think I speak for everyone when i say that you found a good place here , and you will find a lot of support .
You are in a bad spot right now, as all of us are at any given time. There is no quick fix to this as i am finding out, no pill, no shock therapy.........
As anything else in life worth having it will require work, a lot of work and from what i understand from others here, it does get better. I don't know that yet for sure because i am still at the beginning of my journey, but i have to trust their judgement. I know where you are at right now and it's tough. Other days you will wake up and think that this is stupid, that you don't need this or therapy, and that's cool. But you can always comeback and there will be people here who can help you or simply listen to you.
I think it is important that you find someone you can trust to talk to. For myself it is crucial that i let my guard down and begin to trust.
I hope these words find you in good spirits and think that you are no longer alone.
take care dude

Exchange On a visit to England by Ghandi
Reporter:"what do you think of Western Civilisation,Mr.Ghandi?"
Ghandi: I think it would be a good idea.

#42058 - 06/20/03 01:02 PM Re: Please please help me
ernie Offline

Registered: 08/26/02
Posts: 121
Loc: Portland, Maine
I join the rest in saying welcome, you are not alone. We all fight everyday to regain our selfworth. You did not ask to be abused, no form of abuse is acceptable whether you are male or female. I feel strongly that men are just beginning to come forward, the clerical abuse issue was just the tip of the iceberg.
Come here often, speak out, speak freely, I haven't seen one response in the year I have been here that someone called someone elses message stupid.........Stay strong, love yourself first.

The roads of life are full of stones but, they can be moved take my hand we will help each other.

#362170 - 05/14/11 02:24 PM Re: Please please help me [Re: Leosha]
une.vie.d.espoir Offline

Registered: 12/06/10
Posts: 178
Loc: Quebec-Canada
No Asan is right you are not alone. It will take a bit time but you will get better.


#439833 - 07/02/13 11:20 PM Re: Please please help me [Re: Leosha]
une.vie.d.espoir Offline

Registered: 12/06/10
Posts: 178
Loc: Quebec-Canada
Yes Locha you can feel better se I am 62 years old and I also bean abuse by my father and other mens. It toke me about 2 years to just start getting better from 7 years ago i told peplle i trust. Now i am doing better.


#440171 - 07/06/13 01:34 AM Re: Please please help me [Re: Leosha]
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Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 798
Loc: Rhode Island
Hi, I knew Leosha, of old, it looks like he is no longer on the site. If you click on his name, then posts, you can read his last post and understand why he left.
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus
Pretty much my life as I have posted so far. Triggers!

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