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#361026 - 04/29/11 01:40 PM words to help
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
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Loc: Virginia
when you are
being groomed
say

No

not today

I have to leave

run far away

say fuck you
not in this life
I am not your toy

No

NO

NO NO NO NO FUCK NO

that is what you say

MJ

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Standing together is so much better than hiding in the dark.
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#361928 - 05/11/11 09:58 AM Re: words to help [Re: michael Joseph]
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
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Loc: Virginia
There are many ways to say NO

but healing form childhood abuse is not just saying no
It is learning to love yourself and take care of yourself

Many times we feel we are unworthy or to be stepped upon easily.

We are Worthy and no one needs to walk upon us we are better than all that. It takes a while to understand how great we really are. Hugs

MJ

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Standing together is so much better than hiding in the dark.
***I am a three time WoR Retreat Alumni***
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