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#341268 - 10/01/10 02:53 PM Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip
Ken Singer, LCSW Offline

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Registered: 08/24/00
Posts: 5781
Loc: Lyons, CO USA
They have released a 10 min clip from Kathy Barbari (Big Voice Pictures).

Blissfully retired after 35 years treating sexual abuse

#341280 - 10/01/10 06:02 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Ken Singer, LCSW]
StartingOver08 Offline

Registered: 05/07/08
Posts: 21
Loc: Baltimore
Thank you for sharing this clip. Its alittle bit that means alot in the message. Thank you.

#341285 - 10/01/10 08:22 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: StartingOver08]
Avery46 Offline

Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
This clip is so right on the money/emotions. I cried!!!!

I have a passion to do what one the survivor is doing.


aka DJsport

#341290 - 10/01/10 09:17 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Avery46]
nltsaved Offline

Registered: 08/26/08
Posts: 917
Loc: Kc,Mo
had to delete

Edited by nltsaved (10/03/10 11:08 PM)
Video of me telling my story
you are not alone never were
Why i hate Religion but love Jesus

#341351 - 10/03/10 05:19 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: nltsaved]
blaidd Offline

Registered: 12/01/00
Posts: 240
Loc: Australia
That looks like an incredibly powerful documentary. That 10 min clip was hard to watch, but so validating. Thank you for sharing, I appreciate it.

p.s. I cried too Avery.

Blaidd (pronounced as blaith/blithe) is a welsh word meaning wolf.

#341689 - 10/08/10 12:08 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: blaidd]
1islandboy Offline

Registered: 06/23/08
Posts: 878
Loc: washington
Thank you for sharing this clip...ditto on the validating.

It's a Long Way There (Little River Band)


Rise above the storm and you will find the sunshine ~ M.F. Fernandez

#342498 - 10/19/10 01:02 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: 1islandboy]
bigvoicepictures Offline

Registered: 09/10/09
Posts: 15
Thank you for all your responses to Boys and Men Healing. We did this film
because I'm a mother with a young boy, and also a filmmaker. I felt the calling to bring this issue to light, and help men sexually abused as boys to have a voice. We just found out Tony, one of the men in our film, will be on the panel of the Oprah Show which airs November 5th. I believe that this decade is the time for much needed change, and time for justice.

With all the outreach we are doing to use the film to make change, I am inspired by so many men I have met who are the most amazing individuals who are so brave and so real. I have also been inspired by how men are helping one another to heal, who bring much hope and strength to one another.

Thank you all!

Edited by bigvoicepictures (10/21/10 12:59 AM)

#342549 - 10/20/10 12:34 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: bigvoicepictures]
petercorbett Offline

Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 2509
Hi, my brothers.

Ken, thanks for sharing this with me.

I can see myself in hem.

Pretty powerful indeed.

"I will take my lost boys hand and i will lead him from the depths of darkness, into the sunshine, forever into eternity." As He is Me.

Heal well, my brothers, heal well.


Working Boys' Home 10-14 yrs old, grades 5-8. 1949-1953
A very humble alumni of the WOR Dahlonega, GA.
May 15-17 2009, Alta, Sep. 2009. Sequoia, 2010.
Hope Springs, 2010.

#342812 - 10/22/10 08:44 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: petercorbett]
DanM Offline

Registered: 11/09/07
Posts: 540
Loc: So. California
In spite of all the progress that I have made over these past three years, I still had a difficult time watching the clip. It appears that Kathy Barbari did a wonderful job presenting the material in a caring and compasionate manner. Hearing and seeing the pain that others have experienced is very moving and powerful. It is so easy to sometimes place your own pain out- of- sight and out-of- mind, that is, until you witness the pain of others. Then, it all comes rushing back again.


Edited by DanM (10/22/10 08:55 PM)
Edit Reason: spelling

#346400 - 11/28/10 01:24 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Ken Singer, LCSW]
Nas Offline

Registered: 11/22/10
Posts: 18
Loc: NJ
Thank you for the clip it was very powerful and meaningful for me

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