Hi MS NICKS. I am new here as well and YES it seems there is a very active, somewhat large group of men, that between us have experienced the depths of darkness in a variety of different ways. I hope your Fiance finds comfort in this method of communication and receives some love and guidance he wouldn't otherwise have gotten.
Stay hopeful in your journey to understand and see. Believe that there are better days ahead. Your personal interest and desires for him in this healing period, which could be lengthy, is inspiring and heartfelt. I have been blessed myself to have a partner which didn't and wouldn't shut me out of what we had together because of this horrible THING that can tend to linger.
Take good care...............................