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#358770 - 04/06/11 09:37 AM Young Boy Perpetrators to be Removed from Homes
Disappointed Offline

Registered: 08/11/09
Posts: 542
Loc: U.S.A.
This seems like an approach you guys here would really appreciate.


#358861 - 04/07/11 05:55 AM Re: Young Boy Perpetrators to be Removed from Homes [Re: Disappointed]
catfish86 Offline

Registered: 10/27/09
Posts: 833
Loc: Ohio
Clearly the boys need to be removed from the home and dealt with to determine why they did what they did.

God grant me
The Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The Courage to change the things I can,
And the Wisdom to know the difference.

#358968 - 04/08/11 01:51 AM Re: Young Boy Perpetrators to be Removed from Homes [Re: catfish86]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA
It all depends. A lot of times when a boy is abused he will pass it on to another boy one time or a couple of times. Those boys need counseling and not punishment.

But when the behavior becomes habitual or compulsive then the boy needs to be removed from where he will pass it on to other boys.

So we need to be careful of making a "one size fits all" categorization of those boys.


#359002 - 04/08/11 11:24 AM Re: Young Boy Perpetrators to be Removed from Homes [Re: pufferfish]
Castle Offline

Registered: 10/03/09
Posts: 758
I wrote somthing to this thread and deleted it..this is not an easy topic...I happen to prefer to focus on Survivors not perpetrators.



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