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#35805 - 04/07/05 03:07 AM Face of my perp
Brandon61 Offline
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Registered: 04/06/05
Posts: 28
I found my perp on a registered sex offender list today. It's the first time in 31 years that I've seen him or remembered his name.
I thought I would be angry or something, but I just feel numb.
I wonder how many others he victimized before or after me. He was 13 when he assulted me, so he's been at it for 31 years.
Here is the link to his page on the Louisiana sex offenders registry.

I know it's not nice to judge people, but this guy really looks like a perp.

#35806 - 04/07/05 09:20 AM Re: Face of my perp
Muldoon Offline

Registered: 05/30/02
Posts: 1428
Loc: St Paul MN
He realy looks like a perp all the way. Looks like he got away with being evil until 1995. Hope that things are moving toward healing for you. Keep coming to the web site there is lots of help here. Tom

Teach the Children to Never Hide in the Silence

#35807 - 04/07/05 10:18 PM Re: Face of my perp
bkeithb Offline

Registered: 03/23/05
Posts: 63
Loc: Milwaukee
Sickening to look into that face knowing what he's done to so many.

Thanks for sharing ... I was molested by someone in Louisiana as well. But in the early 80's. This databased doesn't go back that far.

Keep on the journey!


#35808 - 04/08/05 12:02 AM Re: Face of my perp
reality2k4 Offline

Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6845
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
think you need a trigger warning in this thread, he frightened me to death,


Whoever stole the Sun, put it back and we'll drop all the charges!

#35809 - 04/08/05 01:21 AM Re: Face of my perp
Splitting Offline

Registered: 12/26/04
Posts: 62
Brandon, my uncle is in prison for raping a young girl in Georgia. I go to the Ga. prison site, see his photo, and nothing. I can remember as clear as day him having his penis in my mouth and asking'"have you had enough to drink". Sh#t, was four. Howwas I to answer that.

I am frustratingly numb as you are.

I can say tat my psydoc changed meds and I am feeling a little lighter today. Better living through modern chemistry.

Good luck and keep workin it.


#35810 - 04/08/05 06:30 AM Re: Face of my perp
Brandon61 Offline
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Registered: 04/06/05
Posts: 28
Thanks for the support. I apologize for not warning you about how he looked.

Iíve had a little time to think about things.

First off, Iím glad to know he is a convicted, registered sex offender. I always wondered if he had gone on to have a wonderful life after screwing me over, but obviously he didnít.

Itís validating to me. Iím not his only victim. I know it happened to me, and he was convicted for doing it to someone else. It makes my claim more compelling and believable. I feel sorry for all of his other victims. I probably knew some of them.

It brings some closure for me. Iíve avoided looking him up to see his face or find out his name. I could have found him in my high school yearbook at any time. It was good that when I did see his face, it was in the proper place.

Itís been a long time since this happened (I think it was 1974 - in Mandeville, Louisiana). I remembered the details in September of 2002, and it has taken a couple of years for me to get over much of the damage. I guess the time was right to see his face. I feel relieved. Iím not bitter anymore. Iíve seen him for what he really is.


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