In all respect, the term "ego-dystonic" sounds like psychological mumbo jumbo!
I agree with that. You have to have a PhD in psychology to understand it.
Your system could be set up like the response system in my local medical system
The "A" in SSA holds the key-what is he nature of the attraction:
SSA-1 = to power (I was powerless in my csa);
SSA-2 = to youthful innocence (I lost mine);
SSA-3 = to confidence (I lacked belief in myself-my perps were elf confident);
SSA-4 = to masculinity? (I was not a man- (my perps were athletes);
SSA-5 = to domination (I wanted revenge
And to have dominion over other males).
SSA-6 = I also had abusive modeling of healthy sexuality from my mother-so my SSA fed a sense of loyalty to women in a twisted way.
SSA-9 = All of the above.
In my case this would make me: SSA - 22.214.171.124.6
But that's too unwieldy.
Since a lot of guys would be in this category, we could make it:
SSA - 69
Any term that enlightens is welcome- those that just put a label on things or cast ones own insecurities on another arent useful.