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#353667 - 02/14/11 10:33 PM Not on MS !!!!
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Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
At the final divorce hearing, the wife's lawyer held up a picture of my then 6 yo daughter whom was sitting on my shoulders. Her face was 50% obscured by the bag of Kettle Corn (we were at a county fair) she had set on my hat without my knowledge. I couldn't figure out why people were smiling at us so. Anyway, the lawyer, in a mode of disgust, said "THIS was found on that website were all these guys assemble...it certainly should not be where sexually abused men assemble."

The picture was only in one place and that was in the full-member's only section. That was explained to the judge. The nature of MS was explained to the judge ad-nauseum. He agreed with the lawyer from hell, "this site, even in the members only section, should not have pictures of children...even your own."

I'd say the myths are much more than alive and kicking.


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#353672 - 02/15/11 12:01 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: Still]
earlybird Offline
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Registered: 02/18/10
Posts: 1007
Loc: WA USA
RB,

First off, it is sicking to have a picture of you and your daughter that you placed in a "safe" (well supposely safe) section of MS used to once again injure you. I'm deeply saddened by your experience.

Of course this begs the question, how did they come by this photo if it was not publicly accessible? How safe are we?

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#353673 - 02/15/11 12:05 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: earlybird]
SamV Offline
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Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5971
Loc: Sunnny, South East USA
Final, did I hear final?

Oh Rob, I hope so.

Sam

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#353674 - 02/15/11 12:05 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: earlybird]
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Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
Wife's brother signed up under faulse pretence.


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#353677 - 02/15/11 12:21 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: Still]
nevragan Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 10/23/08
Posts: 907
Loc: NC
hey Robbie,
Sorry to hear about all the trouble you have been going thru lately. I feel for you cause it isn't fair. Have you talked to the mods yet about him being a member here? Sounds like someonee we don't need around here if he is a fake. Just sayin. Anyways, take care of yourself.

Andy


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#353697 - 02/15/11 07:45 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: nevragan]
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Registered: 02/07/09
Posts: 479
sounds like he infiltrated. watch out. i'm sorry rob


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#353720 - 02/15/11 02:22 PM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: Daniel_forgotten]
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Registered: 06/05/09
Posts: 124
Loc: New York
These guys? What are we some type of lower life form? Because I was sexually abused a virus was passed along to sexually abuse other children? I cannot believe that myth is alive and kicking. Proves that there is a lot we don't know about male survivors AND also proves that our justice system is ignorant.

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#353781 - 02/15/11 11:12 PM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: h.beat,h.break]
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Registered: 02/16/07
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A great man once said, "People suck!"


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#353797 - 02/16/11 02:31 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: Still]
Ever-fixed Mark Offline
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Registered: 01/02/10
Posts: 732
Loc: United States
What is the lawyers name, and in what state does he practice law? I think a complaint to the bar association in that state from an advocacy organization might start a useful dialog.

Now if only there was such an organization...

-efm

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Everybody's been through their own hell
There's nothing too special about getting hurt
Getting over it, that takes the work

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#353802 - 02/16/11 03:09 AM Re: Not on MS !!!! [Re: Ever-fixed Mark]
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Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
It was NH. She did nothing illegal. I monitored all moves all the way. She was a scumbag, but did not break the law. At one point she did break the law and I complained to the NH SUpreme Court. They never find against their own.

Scumbag-move sample: Wife and this lawyer took my Healing Journal and copied all of it except the good stuff like me foregiving the perps and some positive poetry I wrote. Did the judge care about those scummy ommissions? HELL NO> He did not even listen. That journal ended up everywhere. I'm still not over it and its been about 1.5 years.

Stories like this go on and on.


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