I've decided to move this topic onto the Family & Friends forum where it will probably be better suited.

I know some of you have strong feelings about women posting on the forum as it's been discussed before, but I hope we can accept that sometimes they can add a perspective to a discussion that we couldn't hope to see otherwise.

I hope you all go there and read the topics posted, the help and advice we can give is invaluable to wives and partners who are confronted with men like us for the first time, or are living with a survivor and struggling to understand them.

And we can gain so much support and help there as well.

I hope you all understand this action.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau