Newest Members
JHJ, NowICanSee, rdc445, batman72, scareypt
13228 Registered Users
Today's Birthdays
biggbill70 (46), CP4 (26), EddieMi (48), EddieT (48), hemi1024 (56), Kage (72), kdj_74 (42), Knightswhitehart (51), otlhouston (49), TX_Space (49), VirtualBman (52)
Who's Online
1 registered (1 invisible), 42 Guests and 5 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Forum Stats
13,228 Registered Members
75 Forums
68,548 Topics
476,978 Posts

Most users ever online: 418 @ 07/02/12 07:29 AM
Topic Options
#352300 - 01/29/11 11:55 AM Cruelty in General
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
Given that sexual attacks, post-disclosure discrimination and abuse are, at their very foundation, pure cruelty, a question lingers:

What makes some people capable of cruelty?

#352317 - 01/29/11 04:56 PM Re: Cruelty in General [Re: Still]
kb8715 Offline

Registered: 07/16/10
Posts: 808
I don't get cruelty either but see kindess every day. I work at a big hospital in NYC in a bad area that helps people who have no help. We care for many family and kids and I smile knowing I work with real Angels doing good things...

I like to see the good while notunderstanding the monsters either...

Be well. Keith

Edited by kb8715 (01/29/11 05:01 PM)
"You can get far in life by pushing except through a door marked PULL...." Profile quote in my son's senior year HS Yearbook.

#352342 - 01/29/11 09:52 PM Re: Cruelty in General [Re: kb8715]
Awake at Last Offline

Registered: 12/12/10
Posts: 77
Loc: Chicago Land
Cruelty denies that the victim is a person. For the abuser you are not a person, but a sexual object. People who reject survivors who disclose are slotting them into categories that dehumanize them in the minds of those who behave this way--you are "gay", damaged goods, a potential abuser, whatever. However sick and abusive we may deem these kinds of behavior, it happens all the time.

Morality or whatever you want to call begins with a recognition that you are dealing with persons, not objects.


Moderator:  ModTeam, TJ jeff 

I agree that my access and use of the MaleSurvivor discussion forums and chat room is subject to the terms of this Agreement. AND the sole discretion of MaleSurvivor.
I agree that my use of MaleSurvivor resources are AT-WILL, and that my posting privileges may be terminated at any time, and for any reason by MaleSurvivor.