To my brothers who are thanking me in this thread,
You are VERY welcome! I hope this information of "Child-On-Child" abuse comes as a relief and helps you as much as it helped me.
Thinking that I had been a willing participant in my abuse was, very literally, killing me - I had suicidal thoughts since my early teen years. But learning that what happened to me was ABUSE, that it was IN NO WAY my fault...allowed me to shed a lot of shame and breathe a great big sigh of relief - relief, knowing that many of my mistakes and problems in life weren't because I was a perpetual screwup but were, in fact, caused by something that wasn't my fault AT ALL - and that is a great comfort, knowing that I am NOT a perpetual screwup. I'm actually learning that I'm quite a good guy, in fact.
Do me a favor, my brothers - if the laws in your area don't agree with my therapist's EXPERT opinion of "Child-On-Child" abuse, don't despair, okay? Laws are being changed all the time. Do a little research on your own - I find my local library to be a good source of inexpensive but valuable literature - and be patient; someday, the world will recognize our pioneering efforts of defining male victimization and begin providing resources for us and interventions for children.
I'm truly sorry that you have been abused, my brothers...but thank you for participating in this site and helping us in our struggle.
You are not only survivors now...you are heroes leading the way in a noble cause.
Bless you, my brothers, one and all.
Your loving brother, as always,