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#349846 - 01/05/11 09:34 PM What Disclosure Cost Me
Shawushka Offline

Registered: 01/05/11
Posts: 128
Loc: VA
I'm not sure if I'm supposed or allowed to post in this branch, but I want to let you guys know that there are supportive people.
My partner is a ms and it is beyond me, how you can leave someone that you love and care for about something so horrible.
Yes, I've also been thinking about leaving him, because some of his behaviour affects our relationship.
But deep down I know I can't leave him alone, it's not his fault what happened.
And whenever I get angry, I think of how much I appreciate his courage to open up and share this horrible detail about his childhood. That must have been so difficult.

But, what shocked me most was the reaction of a close friend when I turned to her for support. We should never have children, and if I wasn't afraid he would become a perp himself. wtf?
As a partner of a ms, all these chliches make me vary of who I talk to this about.
I wish the public would become more aware of csa and of csa of boys in particular.

#349864 - 01/06/11 12:55 AM Re: What Disclosure Cost Me [Re: Shawushka]
Shawushka Offline

Registered: 01/05/11
Posts: 128
Loc: VA
Sorry, I posted this in a part I wasn't supposed to post. Even though it's written in bright red letters at the top of the page. My excuses.


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