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#348459 - 12/18/10 01:28 PM Leaving
Justafarmer Offline

Registered: 08/03/10
Posts: 27
Loc: CO
I have been a member for a while, and this site has helped me. Now, as I revisit it, it brings up too much eroticism for me to handle. I realize the need to post exactly what happened and I did so myself, some on the forum and some in private messages. But, I am in a positions where it is causing me more damage than not. Don't have enough strength to stay away from the posts that trigger me.

NOT blaming any one. It is just me and the cycle of my healing that I have to do this.

Thanks for all the help and when I feel like I can handle it again I may return.


#348559 - 12/20/10 01:54 AM Re: Leaving [Re: Justafarmer]
Tedure Offline

Registered: 04/17/09
Posts: 203
Loc: Utah
I understand what you are saying and think you are making a good choice.

Happy trails, your friend , Ted

When you change the way you look at things the things you look at change.

#348584 - 12/20/10 09:55 AM Re: Leaving [Re: Justafarmer]
Avery46 Offline

Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA

I understand what your saying. We are here for you.

We will be here when you return. May you continue to find peace and joy in your life.


aka DJsport

#348585 - 12/20/10 10:09 AM Re: Leaving [Re: Avery46]
Ever-fixed Mark Offline

Registered: 01/02/10
Posts: 732
Loc: United States

You're in a challenging place, I hope you have a good support network around you that you can lean on, and a therapist that you are working with who is helping you work through these issues. We'll look forward to seeing you again some time.



Everybody here's got a story to tell
Everybody's been through their own hell
There's nothing too special about getting hurt
Getting over it, that takes the work

- "Duck and Cover" by Glen Phillips

#348630 - 12/20/10 06:50 PM Re: Leaving [Re: Ever-fixed Mark]
tommyb Offline

Registered: 11/29/10
Posts: 834
Loc: American South

#348664 - 12/20/10 11:05 PM Re: Leaving [Re: tommyb]
michael Joseph Offline

Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
take care and hope life heals you while you are away

hope life gets better


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