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#345765 - 11/19/10 01:10 PM Father as abuser
CM3 Offline

Registered: 11/16/10
Posts: 23
Hey guys,
I'm wondering if a thread has been started about sexual abuse by fathers. If not, I would like to start one. I relate to most of the sexual abuse stories I have been reading about here. There are probably some things that are unique to having your own father as the perp. Any thoughts?

#345798 - 11/19/10 06:00 PM Re: Father as abuser [Re: CM3]
blaidd Offline

Registered: 12/01/00
Posts: 240
Loc: Australia
Hi Phil, I am interested to know what your thoughts are?

Blaidd (pronounced as blaith/blithe) is a welsh word meaning wolf.

#346213 - 11/25/10 12:27 AM Re: Father as abuser [Re: blaidd]
risingagain Offline

Registered: 11/09/10
Posts: 597
Loc: Vancouver, BC, Canada
Yeah, what are your thoughts on this?

I think I was abused by my dad.

#346242 - 11/25/10 11:26 AM Re: Father as abuser [Re: risingagain]
catfish86 Offline

Registered: 10/27/09
Posts: 833
Loc: Ohio
Until the past year, I had always maintained and believed that I had never even met my father. It was at the point where I started recovering memories of being kidnapped by my uncle that I started digging and found out up to the age of 4 I was regularly visiting and being visited by my divorced dad. Shortly after being told that, I realized who he was. He was the big bald guy who fondled me in the bed and the bathtub. I feel very betrayed. Whom can I trust? Those who were supposed to protect me at my most vulnerable betrayed me and used me for his own pleasure. I really resisted giving my children baths and putting them to bed. It scared the hell out of me.

God grant me
The Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The Courage to change the things I can,
And the Wisdom to know the difference.


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