1. You have a beautiful soul
2. He is an abuser nothing he says is true.
3. You were not doomed, he chose to abuse you.
4. He is scum and should be locked up forever.
5. You are not crazy
6. You are sane
7. You deserve to be happy
8. And you deserve to be loved.
If you hold up a mirror to these messages, you can see the reflection of those messages bounce off away from you and on to the man who hurt you. The messages say far more about him and what a twisted bastard he is than they do about you.
Blaidd (pronounced as blaith/blithe) is a welsh word meaning wolf.