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#346478 - 11/28/10 11:47 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Nas]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA
This is a good and helpful film clip.


#347722 - 12/10/10 08:58 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Nas]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1

#350119 - 01/08/11 11:52 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Still]
brokenleg Offline

Registered: 01/05/10
Posts: 65
A relief. I love it. Thanks.

#360049 - 04/17/11 11:41 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: brokenleg]
Fissy Tsickens Offline

Registered: 09/23/08
Posts: 466
Loc: Bassett, Virginia
Thanks, Ken.

Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home Iíll never see

It may sound absurd...but donít be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed...but wonít you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
Itís not easy to be me

#361366 - 05/03/11 03:52 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Nas]
Navi7 Offline

Registered: 05/02/11
Posts: 4
Loc: South Africa
This was validating, though I cried to, well...still on the inside. I'm managing tears now though. I have got a long way to go. I hate the way I feel. But I know God is with me.

Thanks for making it available.


How does God speak, because I am listening. Someone help me!

#373593 - 10/28/11 08:24 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Navi7]
unhappycamper Offline

Registered: 10/21/11
Posts: 733
Loc: VA
== triggers ===

I just received my copy of the DVD yesterday & watched the entire documentary last night. It's very well made and edifying. A big surprise is that two of the survivors had experiences similar to mine (violent rape) and the North Carolina psychologist even remembered a pillow in his face, same as me. We all know there are thousands of silent survivors out there with stories like ours, but there's a sense in which it's good to actually hear that the abuse was "nothing personal," it was about the perpetrators, not about us. And I enjoyed the upbeat attitude and constructive activism of the New Jersey survivor.

#373667 - 10/28/11 11:01 PM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Nas]
NewSummer Offline

Registered: 09/01/11
Posts: 59
Loc: Surrey BC
"The blame belongs there, not here"...
I shut others out when I feel they are getting to close..sounds like it is a normal responce..
I will watch this again..

life is what happens while you make other plans- John Lennon

#374148 - 11/03/11 10:33 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Nas]
ShadowPianoman Offline

Registered: 10/20/11
Posts: 54
Loc: Iowa
That meant so much to me, you sharing that clip with all of us.

Thank you.


#381341 - 01/03/12 10:55 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Ken Singer, LCSW]
quinceduncan Offline

Registered: 12/30/11
Posts: 6
Loc: South Carolina
Check your local public libraries for copies of the dvd. I checked it out and it was how I was able to find this website through references at the end and on the cover. The video helps to awaken a sense of awareness for many of us that are walking around dealing with the same issues, but don't get to verbalize nor visualize it. I am proud of the 3 depicted survivors and the filmmakers that helped to realize the documentary. There really could be several volumes of this dvd . . . just reading the survivor stories so far on this website . . . . there's a lot of work to be done.

Always looking up!

#390172 - 03/22/12 02:58 AM Re: Boys and Men Healing 10 min clip [Re: Ken Singer, LCSW]
Forexpreneur Offline

Registered: 02/08/12
Posts: 141
Loc: Uranus (hell no not yours. lol...
Thank you very much for sharing this clip. This looks like an incredibly powerful film.


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