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#336738 - 07/24/10 10:52 PM With a little help of my friends...
antonioe Offline

Registered: 07/09/10
Posts: 11
I had a rough week, by wednesday I was really stressed and with a lot of anxiety, I had even forgotten that my best friend was going to be in town.

He called late at night and I went to his hotel to see him, I was thinking about telling him about my CSA on my way to his hotel, I got really scared, even trembling...

I hadn't told anyone about my CSA (except here in MS), but even tough it was really scary it all went well, he offered to help me any way he can and I think that helped a lot.

The very fact of telling him helped me release a lot of stress, it's like the burden I'm carrying got split.

I hadn't had a good night sleep until that day, I woke up thursday morning totally relaxed

I wanted to share this with all of you who are beggining your healing process, and tell you that we are not alone.

Trust someone and share your pain and grief, it really helps!


I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself.
A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough
Without ever having felt sorry for itself.

-- D.H. Lawrence

#336741 - 07/25/10 12:41 AM Re: With a little help of my friends... [Re: antonioe]
petercorbett Offline

Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 2509
Hi, my fraternal brother,

Yes, the more we tell others, the more we come out from ourselfs.

I couldn't have said what you have said any better.


"I will take that lost boys hand, and i will lead him from the depths of darkness, into the sunshine forever into eternity."

Heal well, my brother, antonioe, heal well.


Working Boys' Home 10-14 yrs old, grades 5-8. 1949-1953
A very humble alumni of the WOR Dahlonega, GA.
May 15-17 2009, Alta, Sep. 2009. Sequoia, 2010.
Hope Springs, 2010.


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