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#334848 - 06/29/10 02:50 AM hope and healing.
traillius Offline

Registered: 04/21/10
Posts: 261
I am making peace with my past. Since both perps know, there is no more reason for me to hide from this. And if I don't hide from this, I don't need to hide from my other pain. Facing it means I can start letting go. So I can start living the rest of my life.I will remain when I can to help others. I am healing, and it feels good. A man could get used to this.

Edited by traillius (06/29/10 01:14 PM)

#334858 - 06/29/10 10:37 AM Re: hope and healing. [Re: traillius]
jhp Offline

Registered: 06/28/10
Posts: 15
Loc: South Africa
I'm envious. Well done for the courage to make it happen.

#334864 - 06/29/10 01:12 PM Re: hope and healing. [Re: traillius]
traillius Offline

Registered: 04/21/10
Posts: 261
I have forgiven both perps, and informed them of this. It was the best choice for me, though I respect anyone else's differing choices.

#334924 - 06/29/10 11:39 PM Re: hope and healing. [Re: traillius]
BuryingJack Offline

Registered: 04/02/10
Posts: 101
You are taking a big step, Traillius. Your strength is important to share. I am very happy and proud to know you. I wish I could accomplish what you just did.



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