thank you for taking the time. It means a lot to me. I am learning here to take things one step at a time as well. With my b/f of course but this has always been an issue for me in many areas. Especially food. Nothing major, just eating out all the time and resenting cooking in general. I know where it comes from but from time to time I buy loads of groceries with every intention of making meals for the week and well... like you said, I fail every time!! Now, I'm doing it 'baby step' -style and it's working better.
I like the way you put it :'things get channeled to other situations'... You wrote in a way that made perfect sense to me.
Thank you again for the answer.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.-Mother Theresa