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#326004 - 03/23/10 08:22 PM Do No Harm.
BigV Offline

Registered: 07/20/09
Posts: 84
Loc: Western Canada
It's been over a year since I last dated a woman.
I no longer feel the need for companionship.
I'm over it.
I can barely remember what loneliness feels likes, anymore.
All I feel now is reassurance, and peace of mind.

Reassurance is knowing
That I can only help myself.

Peace of mind is understanding
That I don't need a woman to be happy.

Or maybe it's just that I'm afraid to make myself that



That the time would have to come
When I would have to tell her
Why I have these strange quarks,
The tendency to withdraw
Into my own world.
She'll misinterpret it as aloofness.
All I'm trying to do is protect
What’s left
Of my innocence.

Men and boys.

Don't dare pick a flower

Or the sky will fall.

My confidence recedes into a place filled with flowers.
You're not supposed to know this.
My image decomposes in this space
Until I'm stripped down to deadly nightshade
And hemlock.

My body will eventually learn
And adapt by converting the poisons
Into their own cures.

And when it does, I might let you in.
But only then.

The doctors doubt my every word.
They say I'll kill myself in the process.
But I know their secrets;
Or at least the secrets of one.
I know
That she broke her oath.

"Do no harm."

I know
Her little secret.
She transplanted
Slivers of midnight
From herself
And into the chest cavity
Of a boy, who is now a man,
Of whom I am fairly certain
Is the man who looks back at me
From the mirror.

I find it hard to trust people
When someone who was charged
With the sacred responsibility
Of protecting me,
Violated me,
Stole my childhood,
And replaced it
With a crude vestige.
This world mocks my kind
By constantly trying to remind us
That boys will be boys
Which means they never cry,
Which is simply the nature of things,
Just like how a woman
Is never suppose
To sexually violate a child.

It's the nature of things,


I learnt to believe

That I am unnatural,

An aberration,

A violation

Of everyone’s collective expectations.

I am happy being alone.
I derive strength in this silence.
I don't know if I can trust you,
Or any other woman,

But I know I can trust

In solitude

To not repeat

The breaking

Of an oath.

Just remember
If I ever do let you in,
Make sure
You never
pick the flowers.

Edited by BigV (03/23/10 09:19 PM)

#326678 - 03/30/10 07:09 PM Re: Do No Harm. [Re: BigV]
SamV Offline

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5971
Loc: Sunnny, South East USA
Beautiful, BigV

Thank you for sharing. For those of us hurt by a female, may I say, I saw myself in your words. You have described what I have not.

Thank you,
sasuva, Sam

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