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#32205 - 03/24/05 12:29 PM One hell of a day
Dude Offline

Registered: 01/11/05
Posts: 126
Loc: Fort Smith, AR

#32206 - 03/25/05 02:37 AM Re: One hell of a day
ForeverFighting Offline

Registered: 02/09/05
Posts: 1253
Loc: New Mexico, USA
What's left of your post isn't much to go on. Just know that nobody here judges you. We're all in this together. I look at what I've posted on this site, and collectively these guys know more about me than anybody else, I think. I actually know one of the men who comes by here from time to time, and I think, What in the world must he think of me? I mean it's one thing to tell your friend some things, but for him to know everything???? But you know, he says he feels the same way. The fact that all of us have so much in common today because of stuff that happened years ago bonds us together. Sometimes when I post I'll hear a response, sometimes there's nothing left to say, and sometimes we're in so much pain that we cry if we go there. It took me three weeks to respond to one post, not because I didn't want to, but because I had to process the connections in my life first.

Don't be afraid to post, dude. You're OK here. And I'm sorry you had a rotton day. I hope today goes better for you.

"This search for the truth--it's not for the faint of heart."--Goren on 'Law & Order: CI'
"The former things will not be called to mind, nor will they come up into the heart."--Isaiah 65:17

#32207 - 03/25/05 02:42 AM Re: One hell of a day
Curtis St. John Offline
Past President
Registered: 01/20/04
Posts: 1798
Loc: Westchester, N.Y.

I missed what you posted but I too want to say that we're here for you.

You don't have to be sorry either.

Take care of yourself.

#32208 - 03/25/05 02:44 AM Re: One hell of a day
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
sometimes what we write scares the crap out of us, on the screen before us appear our thoughts and ideas and suddenly they don't add up. "HIT DELETE"

We've all done it, seen it spelled out before us and wondered "what the f**k are people going to think now?" But 99% of the time what we write is right because writing is slower than talking, we think more as we write.
But if the time isn't right for that disclosure, thought or idea then it's ok to edit it. Maybe another day it will be 'right'.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#32209 - 03/25/05 02:52 AM Re: One hell of a day
James_dup1 Offline

Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
Man Dave how true are them words. I mean how many of havent hit submit and then been scared to death of what was going to come. I know I'm guilty of that. Ofcourse when I first started posting I didnt know I could delete once I submitted.

Take your time in sharing what you feel comfortable in sharing. You'll find some of the most supportave and kind men in the world here. When I first found this web site I was lost, walking around in the dark. The men here took my hand and led me out of the darkness and into the light. But NO ONE pulled me there. Take care of yourself first and formost. We understand.


I have more issues than Rolling Stone!


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