I may be opening a can of worms here, but while Donnie make a generous offer (to be inundated by a ton of embarrassing questions?), perhaps it would be better to pm to me.
As a professional working in the sexual abuse field for more than 30 years, I probably have heard it all. I don't say that I have because every once in a while, somebody tells me something that is something I've never heard about. And believe me, people will drop the dime on subjects that are "out there".
So, as long as it doesn't get too time consuming, I will take those embarassing questions and post them under my name.
Blissfully retired after 35 years treating sexual abuse