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#31245 - 11/08/03 07:00 AM hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
Leosha Offline

Registered: 06/18/03
Posts: 3614
Loc: Right here
bben siick agin, knoww in hehad thtat i nedd see dooctor or goo hosopital, so scferd right noow. bben i hospitaal 5 timems sinc emay, oonnce was for suruggery, onnnce for ttryingn ennd of mysellf, but o ther titmes for being llike siick likke noww. tttwo ties they ttie me down on bedd, sccarel me. havefrined comingg overeher noww, bbut stil sccaree for her tot take me. thhrowiing uup llot, thoriwn gugp some bblodd, ffeverr for most off wekk. hhow i ccan go andnot be sscreed?

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#31246 - 11/08/03 07:46 AM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
bowman Offline

Registered: 04/19/03
Posts: 72
Leo, pm'ing you buddy.

#31247 - 11/08/03 09:55 AM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
We're all scared Alexei, some more than others.

I'm thinking about you, take good care.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#31248 - 11/08/03 04:31 PM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
Pollyanna Offline

Registered: 10/10/03
Posts: 211
Loc: Missouri
I'm glad you have someone coming...If you didn't we'd be worried.

I hope you feel better soon.

Take care


"Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you don't give up."

Anne Lamott

#31249 - 11/08/03 05:17 PM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
learning2remember Offline

Registered: 10/21/03
Posts: 403
Loc: Europe
You don't have to NOT be scared.

Feel what you feel.

Don't beat yourself up for being scared.

Don't hurt yourself for any reason. I've been hurting myself lately, and it hasn't solved anything for me.

Don't worry about being brave right now, but please, just keep being.

"This is not my shame, this is their shame." Mona Eltahawy

#31250 - 11/08/03 05:26 PM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
crisispoint Offline

Registered: 09/24/03
Posts: 2154
Loc: Massachusetts

I'm scared with you.

I am also with you. I'm carrying you in my heart and praying for you. Please, my brother, be at peace. We care about you. It's okay to be scared, but it's more important to take care of yourself.

You have surrounded yourself with love, here, Leo. I hope you feel that too. I hope it takes some of the edge away from being scared.

I love you, Leo. No strings. Be well.

Peace and love, bro.


There are reasons I'm taking medication. They're called "other people." - Me, displaying my anti-social tendancies

#31251 - 11/08/03 06:27 PM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
The Dean Offline
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Registered: 07/15/02
Posts: 2080
Loc: Milwaukee, WI
Alexei, your body is adjusting to some strong medicine you are taking just now. I am sure it will straighten out soon or your doc will change them.

When you get back here you will read of the love we have for you, and of how important you are to all of us.

Alexei, you have suffered terrible trauma in your life--it would be frightening if you were NOT afraid.

Keep close to your friends. I think you need to let your friends now as soon as you get a fever over 100 degrees. Don't let it continue or get worse. Go for help ASAP.

We all have set backs like this Alexei, but slowly they will have less power over us and they will be less severe. Always remember, you are surounded by people who really love you and care for you.


If we do not live what we believe, then we will begin to believe what we live.

#31252 - 11/09/03 05:18 AM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
gryffindor Offline

Registered: 02/08/03
Posts: 131
Loc: St. Charles, Illinois

Can your friends spend some time (taking turns) at the hospital just sitting with you so you are not alone? It is natural to be scared. No one expects you not to be so be kind to yourself and allow yourself to feel afraid. It's really okay. Take good care of yourself. Everyone here loves you as do your friends.


"Where there's a will, there's a way." American Folk Saying

"Had I not fallen, I could not have arisen; had I not sat in darkness, I would not have recognized the light." Midrash Tehillim Ch. 22

#31253 - 11/10/03 01:38 AM Re: hhow to get ofver theh fearr?
bountiful1 Offline

Registered: 08/24/03
Posts: 62
Loc: New York, New York, USA

you do not have to be not scared. I get scared every day. Life has so much to it, and we have to add the disruption of our feeling safe in time and space having been ripped away from us!

I am thinking of you and praying for you! Know that you are thought of...

Blessings to you from Asher

We are such stuff as dreams are made on, and I dream of freedom and happiness and fulfillment for us all.


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