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#323008 - 02/23/10 12:00 AM Re: Was I abused? PART 2 - You can help [Re: just me]
TheBobcatAgain Offline

Registered: 02/13/10
Posts: 524
Loc: AZ, U.S.A.
Hey, just me.

I can't say that I recall all of my visits to my doctor, but I think my answer is, "No. He did not look at my privates." I was ages 8-18 in the years 1980-1990, if that helps.

Good luck finding your answers!

Your friend,


You don't have to be perfect to be wonderful.

#323038 - 02/23/10 04:42 AM Re: Was I abused? PART 2 - You can help [Re: just me]
tony1990 Offline

Registered: 02/22/10
Posts: 11
A regular doctor should not worry about your private area if your ailment has nothing to do with it at all. I met a doctor who had sex with me three times when I was like fifteen years old, I think fifteen, and he boasted about his fondling of what he called "sexy boys" patients in a non-threating way. As he told me about the different boys and the smell of their private region on his hand afterwards he was masterubating to the thought. I think maybe this doctor you saw was sick like him. He specifically told me that he made sure to "examine" it for the smell and memory. It seems like a violation to me that was done to you.

Just Me

I hope that helps you nothing I share on here is easy for me.

#323051 - 02/23/10 05:36 AM Re: Was I abused? PART 2 - You can help [Re: TheBobcatAgain]
nomansanisland Offline

Registered: 02/03/09
Posts: 156
Loc: NM
I am going to have to say yes. I was a AF brat, Drs come and Go in the Af, tours begin and end in 12-26 months. So I had alot of Drs examine me when i was sick. Seems to me now that that was protocol.I hated it. It was hugely embarassing and a violation of my own personal space. Good wishes on your quest. Patrick

" If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drum. Let him step to the music he hears, however measured or far away." Henry David Thoreau

#323074 - 02/23/10 01:40 PM Re: Was I abused? PART 2 - You can help [Re: nomansanisland]
just me Offline

Registered: 05/27/09
Posts: 205

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