yes, i agree with michael. i have been really hurt by religious types who can't seem to get past their own 'morality' biases. sorry to stereotype these people, but the ones i encountered did not have the wherewithall to not lump victims into the same mental category as perps. i would ask myself this question: what do i need more at this time, the safety and assurance of a roof, food, and therapy, or to satisfy the inquisitive nature of a 'friend'? whose needs must be put first? yours or theirs?
sorry if that sounds paranoid, but you asked.
good luck with that,
Ron Schulz, MSPC, NCC