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#301795 - 09/05/09 04:50 PM playing catch up
DJsport Offline

Registered: 02/20/08
Posts: 1742
Hi, Guys.

I feel mostly happy today. YEAH.

I am trying to catch up on like issues. I remember a time when I was very controlling and a perfectionist.

Even as a child, teenager and early adult I had to most spotless room in the house.

But then I got married and the flood gates opened my mind to being less intense.

Well now, I in my middle life and my finances are a mess as in I have too little money to pay my bill. Today, I am playing catch up alot.

I know I am living alone for the first time in over a decade and doing better everyday at being by myself so, I know some of my motivation is missing by being alone. But, I have this nagging feeling in my gut that I have ten things to do all of the time.

I am trying to relax and do what I can.

Just wanting to vent I guess. But do others here experience the feeling or thoughts about never being caught up.


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#301865 - 09/06/09 04:47 AM Re: playing catch up [Re: DJsport]
tboy85 Offline

Registered: 08/31/09
Posts: 12
I understand Djsport and in a way empathize. I am a perfectionist in certain aspects of my life (maybe it's just a fuitle attempt to gain control), but I do have this visceral feeling that I am always behind everyone else my age and I am trying to play catch up, in finding a job, getting a boyfriend, getting my life started. So in way I guess I understand.


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