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#301710 - 09/04/09 10:38 PM Re: Trauma after remembering [Re: OKIE MIKE]
kerberosesti Offline

Registered: 09/04/09
Posts: 20
Loc: MN
sounds like what i call my "oh shit" moment

and for me thinking about it makes me feel totally helpless, and like it don't make any difference how much i try, some asshole out there is going to prove in some way he has power over my life and there ain't nothing i can do about it.

various social dynamics rekindle the emotions and i don't always find the most appropriate response.

However, I keep learning. Some day I will find the way out of the maze. Kerberos

#301732 - 09/05/09 01:48 AM Re: Trauma after remembering [Re: pufferfish]
claretblue Offline

Registered: 08/30/09
Posts: 97
Loc: UK
Thanks Pufferfish.

You wouldn't wish it on your worst enemy, but it does help a bit knowing that you're not as isolated as you feel sometimes.


#301750 - 09/05/09 05:39 AM Re: Trauma after remembering [Re: claretblue]
LilacLouie Offline

Registered: 07/02/09
Posts: 377
Loc: Utah
When my flashbacks get bad, my second-self kicks in. I have to have "something" get me out of these flashbacks. I end up hurting myself in some fashion. Typically hitting myself, or blasting the music. The physical pain replaces the emotional pain and it "shocks" me out of the flashback.


#301781 - 09/05/09 11:27 AM . [Re: LilacLouie]
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Registered: 11/21/07
Posts: 812

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