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#301036 - 08/31/09 08:43 AM Time
cat lover Offline

Registered: 10/09/05
Posts: 89
Loc: Denver, Colorado
I have recently vacated my apartment and am going to buy a house. I decided to use it as a chance to purge, and sorted through nearly everything I own. I came across a box which had a couple pictures of me and my ex in it. I thought I had gotten rid of all that stuff long ago, but there were a few other things in the box too. I had a brief moment, sudden, in which I felt my cheeks get flush. I immediately put the pictures and things in the trash bag nearest me, and the immediately took the trash bag to the dumpster. Wow, I haven't seen this guy in over five years and I still had that short reaction. I think perhaps it was self-protective: avoid the perpetrator. So there are two good notes, at least: that I was not incapacitated by the picture but instead acted swiftly and clearly; and that I am also leaving behind that apartment with its connection to him to get a new place with connections only to me. More healing. I haven't posted on here in ages. I don't know if it's the time of my subject heading which does the healing, or something else.

#301045 - 08/31/09 10:21 AM Re: Time [Re: cat lover]
TNuss Offline

Registered: 02/28/06
Posts: 203
Loc: Del-A-Ware???
Great for you, keep moving forward....time heals all.

All my best!!!

In harmony,
I hug myself daily until the day I find the embrace that completes me.

#301397 - 09/02/09 10:39 PM Re: Time [Re: cat lover]
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Registered: 05/31/03
Posts: 5793
Loc: in my own world in pittsburgh,...
glad to see you are taking care of yourself and following your heart. that's truly a paean to your recovery program. glad to hear of your peace and happiness.

all the best,


Ron Schulz, MSPC, NCC
  1. the past
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