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#300300 - 08/23/09 03:19 PM care free
DJsport Offline

Registered: 02/20/08
Posts: 1742
The essence of sexuality is to be care free I think.

In viewing maslows higher archy of needs I wonder how one gets what they missed back.

I want to feel special without all the extra stuff.

I want to be desired without all the "feelers".

I am trying to view life in simply terms - KISS.

Forget CSA=SSA, ssa=sin, ssa=family shame, etc

I was loved when and how I was loved. Yes, it sucks to not understand.

It hurts when my fellow survivor is judging me. It hurts when I hurt others.

I want to be good.

I want to be care-free. I want to be innocent. Is my time to be innocent over?

hmmmm. I wander.


Live to your fullest potential

Never make someone a priority if your only an option

#300342 - 08/23/09 11:26 PM Re: care free [Re: DJsport]
mogigo Offline

Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
My partner seems to get this, yet I do not.

I'm trying, and I have moments of clarity but most of the time it really takes alot of work to be "natural".

But I do see his point, it IS natural.

Stupid past smile

Stay strong



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