I understand the feeling of being jealous.
There are other topics on this very subject here - go to search option above.
I view this topic in 4 ways. Two of them have to due with the past csa issues (myths) and two are the current time. I am not sure how these "fit" into your life so, I will print them and let you determine the outcome for you.
1. Albeit not a good way thought - I do not want my perp to be with anyone else because I felt so special when I was with him. All kids want to be with there hero.
2. My perp told me without him I was nothing. My perp was abusive to others.
3. I believe all adults want to be exclusively seen as the ONE with there partners.
4. Have fun with it and accept the comments as NOT being about you but reflective of the other guy.
I hope this helps.
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