You may want to consider looking at the following publication and maybe even downloading and taking it to your various care providers. For those in Canada, the gov't will send it to you. Not sure about what they would do for those south of the border.
When I looked at the areas addressing dentistry, I had one of those light bulb moments realizing that maybe there was a good reason I have avoided dentists like the plague. Just never realized why.
I hope you find this useful. They've got lots of other goodies for us in there, so just poke around a bit, and you should find it. Handbook on Sensitive
Practice for Health Care
My name is Jim
WoR Mysthaven 2008, Level 2 WoR Alta 2009, Kirkridge 2010, 2011, Oprah 200 men