I don't know what it is that's at issue but please use caution even in your private communications on site. Things can go all pear shaped pretty fast and escalate out of control. If necessary you may want to step away from the issue for a few days in order to gain some perspective. Take it up with your T on the local level. He/she may have invaluable insight on whatever it is that's troubling you.
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson