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#2904 - 08/30/02 08:41 PM Re: A little scared...
JamesMichael Offline

Registered: 07/24/02
Posts: 134
No, no, no. The anti-d's are your gift right now. Work with them. Let them do their job. Your mood will lift and you'll be able to face some of your life-crap. Anti-d's do sometimes poop-out if you've been on them a LONG time, and then you have to shift to another one. Right now don't worry about the cloud of depression descending. Think about the cloud of fellowship, brotherhood, and support knowing that there are untold witnesses to your pain...we have the same pain...we all share the SAME pain. Sharing it reduces its power over us.

Don't be afraid. We are here with you.

With an embrace,


#2905 - 08/31/02 12:13 AM Re: A little scared...
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
Come back up to the surface everyone once in awhile (you might have to ask someone to help you do this) get sunshine on your face, smell something sweet, hold the hand of someone you love, get strong and head back down. (I hope this is not too insipid for some).

Then, "Face the thing you fear the most and it will be the certain death of it." Alfred, Lord Tennyson.
Prin it out, pin it on the wall \:D

Thanks James

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#2906 - 09/01/02 12:08 AM Re: A little scared...
ARW Offline

Registered: 08/29/02
Posts: 161
Loc: LA
Good advice. Thanks guys. It's on the wall. It's like I'm looking for excuses and reasons to go back into my little cave.

In every cry of every man,
In every Infant's cry of fear,
In every voice, in every ban,
The mind-forged manacles I hear.
-William Blake

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