I know I have not posted in here in a long time. I been wokring on all my issues with my therapist for past 9 months and been doing great.
Up until today
Not sure if anyone remembers this thread http://malesurvivor.org/cgi-local/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=005060#000000
Well wife and I finally told her mom we never want to be around her step father becuase of what happened, and we want to protect our daughter which we feel is #1 prioirty.
Well her mom flipped out..and says she wants $1500 that she gave to us as a gift last year back...and not only that but accused me of the one my wife should be afraid of it not so words.
I was shocked when I heard this. She is twisting everything about her husband and trying to make me look like the bad guy.
It relaly hurt...because I caould never ever do anything of the sort not in a million years...
one of my biggest OCD fears which was caused by my abuse that i would be falsefully accused beucase of my past. I been trying to work through this with my CBT therapist. I am going to see her tomorrow.
My question is what to do now? I am really upset..what if she does something and tries to accuse me of this? I am sitting here crying..btw she doesnt know what happened to me in the past.
I told my wife lets jsut pay back the $1500 and get them out of our lives for good, but wife is so upset that her mom would say something like that when she still married to the same jerk who abused her.
I am a mess...i am seeing my therapist tomorrow...but i am a mess. I was doing so great to up until today...
Dont worry i am not depressed that bad or anything like that..just i am so angry, at my abuser..and at my mothern law