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#28916 - 06/19/04 11:03 AM Avoidance of bad things, may trigger
Leosha Offline

Registered: 06/18/03
Posts: 3614
Loc: Right here
Well, I have stayed here for hours. I have responded a great deal. And I have maybe gotten out of my system the anger and rage that I was feeling toward the wild creatures who caused so much pain. Being here, trying to be support to others in pain, I suppose that was a better choice then to go out and get into a fight with someone. I was feeling so much like a 'badass', hell, some twelve year old would probably just beat the crap on me.

Want it all to go away.

Avatar photo in memory of my younger brother Makar.

"Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted."~~~Martin Luther King Jr., 1963

#28917 - 06/19/04 01:52 PM Re: Avoidance of bad things, may trigger
orlando Offline
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Registered: 06/17/04
Posts: 14
Loc: England
thats what I want more than anything, for it to go away, and it will go away, as long as you belive in your self and take the support others give you.

Be well friend,

If you need someone to shout at just pm me and Ill listen.


They say you cant change the past...but if theirs a chance, its worth a try right?

#28918 - 06/19/04 09:33 PM Re: Avoidance of bad things, may trigger
Ivanhoe Offline

Registered: 03/19/03
Posts: 1907
Well, I suppose you might know that someone else is glad that you did not go out, looking to be beat up.

And since I'm commenting about this post something else comes to mind.

What is that is said about love...if you want it, give it.

If you want friendship, be one.

If you want help, try giving some.

I think that you've scored big time in those catagories, tonight, this morning.

You didn't waste one moment as you posted during the morning hours when most of us were sleeping...I wasn't either, but I chose to fly my flight were thinking of others.


Again, you show me how to get around some of this stuff.

Thanks, Leosha,


"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."
George Eliot

#28919 - 06/19/04 11:18 PM Re: Avoidance of bad things, may trigger
RICK57 Offline

Registered: 12/31/03
Posts: 1611
Leosha - I've been feeling like a 12 year old since I went back & claimed the sites of my abuse...if I had met you there, I certainly wouldn't have beat you up (not even in your 'bad ass mood')..I do think we'd have had much to talk about though.

Leosha - I can feel the progress that I've made since coming here & you have contributed in no small way towards that... I can also sense the progression that you are making & that makes me feel good!

Best wishes ...Rik (I need to come up with something more original than that, but it's sincerely meant to everyone here).

*Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up.
*I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope!
*There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!


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