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#288452 - 05/22/09 05:06 PM nuturing little me
DJsport Offline
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Registered: 02/20/08
Posts: 1742
My question to you all is: How do you nurture your little boi? What do I do NOW?

so today I saw my T first thing this morning at 7:30am.

I am ok. I am feeling relief but, a sense of rawness too. My bf lives 4 hrs away but he is not responsible for helping me nurture my little boy anyway.

I held little Donnie as I told my T what happened to little me at 6 - see my "chicken coop" story if you want.

I told of the skin to skin contact. I no longer live in secrecy. I took back my sense of curiousity, adventure and the bounciness of my little boy.

I told her of the rage and dissociation. I told her i want to be held in a good way now.

I am completing the 5th and final stage in the process of grieving. I accept that I was traumatized - sexually abused. I was shocked from ages 6-14, in denial/numb from 15-25, in bargaining from 26-41, in anger 42-44 and now acceptance.

It is NOT my fault!!!!

Peace,

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#288470 - 05/22/09 06:59 PM Re: nuturing little me [Re: DJsport]
DannyT Offline
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DJsport,

I wrote a post a while ago about my ways of doing this:

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...12670#Post12670

It has some techniques you might find useful.

Danny


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#288472 - 05/22/09 07:01 PM Re: nuturing little me [Re: DannyT]
DannyT Offline
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Here's another one on this. I was really into inner self work for a while.

Danny

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthr...43342#Post43342


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#288687 - 05/24/09 04:27 PM Re: nuturing little me [Re: DannyT]
DJsport Offline
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wow

wow

wow

My soul is better now

Peace,
DJ

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